We’re going to bed and you want to fool around, but you’re unusually aggressive. When you pull out a new toy that is a bit alarming in its size, I know something’s wrong. This isn’t you. With a bit of comforting conversation,
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We’re fooling around before bed and you need to stop as you start to feel dysphoric and uncomfortable with your own body and how you experience pleasure from it. We cuddle instead, and talk about how you’re feeling, which seems to help
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You’ve texted me that you needed me for something, so here I am. It turns out your girlfriend broke up with you because you weren’t “sexually adventurous” enough. Once we decided I didn’t need to kick her ass (though she deserves it),
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It’s the middle of the night and we’ve been making love for hours. You’re sleeping soundly and I can’t help but watch you, marveling at how sexy you are. It occurs to me that I don’t get to spend a lot of
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It’s been a month since we moved to the same city after being in a long-distance relationship for years, and we’re celebrating with dinner at my place. When it’s time for dessert, you stop me from bringing out the special ice cream
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